Look, I think we need to take this roleplay to the next level.
And yes, I mean wars.
Of course they'd have to be fair, and you'd need specific, valid reasons to start a war or back someone up in one. (No, not because you're their best friend.)
Here's what I propose, feel free to shoot me down, but I feel as if this would be the best option to solve disputes. While I do think lacar's decisions are just and fair, in fact, I love his knack for keeping us all at bay, but I think the roleplay will be a bit more exciting this way.
1: Wars can be denied, under certain circumstances. Basically country A has no reason to start a war with Country B, Country B has the right to decline the war. But let's say Country B was being a douche and claimed all of the land making a pretty circle around Country A. Country B has just revoked it's right, and must go to war with Country A if Country A so choose.
2: No stupid alliances. Yes, you know who you are. Keep alliances realistic (similar forms of government, location, etc.), and don't just group up with a bunch of friends to make yourselves virtually invincible, then be douches to everyone. Just no.
3: Wars should be taken seriously. That means EVERYTHING must be taken into effect. Population, Economy, % of spending used in Defense, Education, even things such as having a huge jungle that will make it expensive for enemy troops to invade, and hard for your troops as well. I mean everything should be taken into effect and judged by a neutral party. We could come up with a better system for actually percisely measuring a country's warring potential.
4: Make the building up/recovery realistic. No "Oh, crap, he claimed land near me. WAAAAAAAAARRRRRRZZZZ." It should be noted that this is not how it works in real life. Several warnings should be given and ignored/denied. And resources should be CONSUMED during wars, not just measured. That means you shouldn't be able to chain-war/have multiple going on at once.
5: No picking wars with smaller nations, unless you want A LOT of other nations down your throat too.
Now, I'm by no means leader of anything happening in Nation States. I just noted that we are having some disputes, and we are putting a lot on Lacar's shoulders. I think there could be a better, more fun way to deal with things.
I'm not trying to press anything, I just want to shout out an idea.