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You Wanted To Know Why I Keep 'Snapping'?
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DaGamer12345
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@Pixi
Oh, okay.
Oh, okay.
Aviarei
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I read everything and I honestly wish there was something I could do to help you feel better, but I know there's not and things don't work like that. I may be a bit late on the uptake considering this was written yesterday, and there's really not much I could say about something so deep and painful as this other than I wish you the best, I truly do ; I mean that in the most profound way that could be conceived through simple text. You do not deserve to be feeling this way. You're an amazing person, more than worthy of anyone's sympathy, time, and care.
Perhaps I don't know you personally and don't know your pain like those closer to you do, like Chiba or thee, but I still hope my words can be taken to heart regardless.
Perhaps I don't know you personally and don't know your pain like those closer to you do, like Chiba or thee, but I still hope my words can be taken to heart regardless.
kingjok3r
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Stay strong Pixi! When I was younger, I lost both my paternal grandparents, one after the other. Both times I was denied to go see them at the hospital and at their funerals because I was 'too young'. It sucks because I would have liked to see them one last time. There isn't much I can do being in Canada and all. If you need someone else to talk to (taking in consideration the others 
) I'd be happy to. We all have our ups and downs and we shouldn't stop there.
) I'd be happy to. We all have our ups and downs and we shouldn't stop there. 
nackacat
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I LOVE YOU PIXIE. Sounds like times are tough for you. I can't imagine the feelings that you're going through but I really hope everything will work out for the best. Just stay strong and stay positive, and remember that we all love you! and don't go back to cutting, been there done that, it usually just doesn't help at all. love you! 
and don't go back to cutting, been there done that, it usually just doesn't help at all. love you! 
oozinator
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I can understand where you're coming from, especially about that inner conflict of wanting your grandfather and grandmother to trade places. I'm sure most of us have had serious, "wicked" thoughts about a loved one at one time. What's important is that you understand that these feelings are circumstantial and that it's normal, especially with such a stressful situation.
I'm sure deep down inside your grandfather really does appreciate your efforts. His complaints to his therapist are probably a way for him to cope with the stress of living without his wife. His gratitude just needs a little work. People will always be imperfect, whether they be stranger or family.
For what it's worth, I think you're courageous. Few people have the mettle to do what you do. Because of the threat of being shunned by you, I will not advise you to seek professional help. But would a family pow-wow kind of thing work?
I think it would clear the waters a bit.
I'm sure deep down inside your grandfather really does appreciate your efforts. His complaints to his therapist are probably a way for him to cope with the stress of living without his wife. His gratitude just needs a little work. People will always be imperfect, whether they be stranger or family.
For what it's worth, I think you're courageous. Few people have the mettle to do what you do. Because of the threat of being shunned by you, I will not advise you to seek professional help. But would a family pow-wow kind of thing work?
I think it would clear the waters a bit.
TheGurw
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My dad would thank you if you disemboweled my cat....he hates my Mickey Mouser.
Times are hard, and they get harder, but I want you to know you aren't ever alone. I'm sure these seem like empty words to you, but know that if you ever asked, I would do just about anything for just about anyone in this community....except Vorsprung, his requests are just a little wack. My grandparents just passed away late last year, luckily they were close together; my grandfather passed only a few short months after my grandmother. I won't say I know what you're going through, because honestly I have no idea...but I do feel for you. You're in my thoughts, Pixi.
For what it's worth, if you want to move to where I am when he does pass, the weather is shit but the money is amazing; and I could pull some strings and get you both interviewed for jobs right quick.
Times are hard, and they get harder, but I want you to know you aren't ever alone. I'm sure these seem like empty words to you, but know that if you ever asked, I would do just about anything for just about anyone in this community....except Vorsprung, his requests are just a little wack. My grandparents just passed away late last year, luckily they were close together; my grandfather passed only a few short months after my grandmother. I won't say I know what you're going through, because honestly I have no idea...but I do feel for you. You're in my thoughts, Pixi.
For what it's worth, if you want to move to where I am when he does pass, the weather is shit but the money is amazing; and I could pull some strings and get you both interviewed for jobs right quick.
foxzm
Active Member
all I can say Pixiel is im sorry and offer a hug (>'_')>, I lost my dad, my only parent back in feb of last year and lost alot then, a home..., a parent, help when I need someone, Holidays will never be the same, and now its just me and my brother. So I feel you. If you wanna talk Im always around.