I do architecture too ! But it was built on negative reinforcement. I'm not going to lie, my lecturers are mega douchebags that never tell you "good job" or pat you on the back no. I know one student who got her work shred up and she cried for 10 days.
My father.. who tells me architecture is a job that requires "love" and "happiness" to inspire good work probably doesn't know how bitter and cruel the comments can be by the lecturers; despite putting in many hours and dollars on changing designs several times.
For that I've become angry and unsympathetic but I managed to get my undergraduate. But I hope that's not how they teach you architecture in your country.