If on the concept of fate and free will, I do not care how my life is dictated by a higher being if such exists, as long as I have a feeling to change, that I can think to myself "I want to be a better person" and then be a better person, who cares if someone else made me into that through my(or their) work, I'm still a better person regardless.
If it's "I want to be a better person" and I literally can't do /anything/ to help myself, and this "fate" is controlling me to not be successful, then I'd be pissed.